{"id":8033,"date":"2026-01-08T19:17:39","date_gmt":"2026-01-08T18:17:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/monocultured.com\/blog\/?p=8033"},"modified":"2026-01-18T17:28:19","modified_gmt":"2026-01-18T16:28:19","slug":"relationship-evaluation-form-redux","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/monocultured.com\/blog\/relationship-evaluation-form-redux\/","title":{"rendered":"Relationship Evaluation Form, redux"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large wp-duotone-purple-green\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1500\" height=\"730\" src=\"https:\/\/monocultured.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/relationship-askew-1500x730.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8034\" srcset=\"https:\/\/monocultured.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/relationship-askew-1500x730.png 1500w, https:\/\/monocultured.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/relationship-askew-640x311.png 640w, https:\/\/monocultured.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/relationship-askew-768x374.png 768w, https:\/\/monocultured.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/relationship-askew-1536x747.png 1536w, https:\/\/monocultured.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/relationship-askew.png 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1500px) 100vw, 1500px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Back in 2001 I made a Relationship Evaluation Form&#x2122; as PDF you could print and fill out for your ex. Now I&#8217;ve recreated it with 100% more web-interactivity! The Relationship Evaluation Form started as an in-joke with friends in Iceland, following a breakup and all the discussions <em>that<\/em> entails. We were commiserating about love&#8217;s unknowns and the transactional zeitgeist.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The idea was to print a form, fill it out and hand it to your ex. The PDF got plenty of downloads but I never heard from anyone who actually used it.&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/monocultured.com\/#project-relationship-evaluation-form\">A short description of the original project with links<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I spent the last couple of days to turn it it into an interactive website \u2013 the goal was to experiment a bit with AI. I used Claude + mcp to vibe the new page into being:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/monocultured.com\/relationship\/\">Relationship Evaluation Form \u2022 2026<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My database skills are mediocre at best, and I&#8217;m excited to see if I\/AI have left any gaping security holes in the implementation, but since I&#8217;m coming at this from a UX perspective I threw cation to the wind and focused on user flows instead.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I can&#8217;t imagine that anyone sane would actually use this&nbsp;<em>for realz<\/em>&nbsp;with a straight face, but I can imagine someone filling it out while drunk and heartbroken.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Obligatory disclaimer: All LLMs are based on wholesale coerced value extraction of human labour and should be set on fire to remedy this.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Back in 2001 I made a Relationship Evaluation Form&#x2122; as PDF you could print and fill out for your ex. Now I&#8217;ve recreated it with 100% more web-interactivity! The Relationship Evaluation Form started as an in-joke with friends in Iceland, following a breakup and all the discussions that entails. We were commiserating about love&#8217;s unknowns &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/monocultured.com\/blog\/relationship-evaluation-form-redux\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Relationship Evaluation Form, redux<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8033","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-doodles"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/monocultured.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8033","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/monocultured.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/monocultured.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/monocultured.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/monocultured.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8033"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/monocultured.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8033\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8059,"href":"https:\/\/monocultured.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8033\/revisions\/8059"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/monocultured.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8033"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/monocultured.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8033"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/monocultured.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8033"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}