{"id":5475,"date":"2013-04-19T16:47:35","date_gmt":"2013-04-19T14:47:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/monocultured.com\/blog\/?p=5475"},"modified":"2013-04-19T16:48:31","modified_gmt":"2013-04-19T14:48:31","slug":"human-relations-parenting-future","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/monocultured.com\/blog\/human-relations-parenting-future\/","title":{"rendered":"Human relations, parenting, future!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>YOU have complex feelings and ambivalence about a lot of things, even if it seems like those things are good for you or for the best.  Don\u2019t assume our kids don\u2019t have those feelings, or that moving into our home is happily-ever-after for them.  Don\u2019t tell them how lucky they are or how they should feel.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>\u2192 Casaubon&#8217;s Book, Sharon Astyk: <a href=\"http:\/\/scienceblogs.com\/casaubonsbook\/2013\/03\/12\/what-foster-parents-wish-other-people-knew\/\" title=\"What foster parents wish other people knew\">What Foster Parents Wish Other People Knew<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>In addition to allowing this man to not only affirm his commitment to abstaining from all the sexual partners he would instead very much be enjoying, the Internet also allowed him to pledge his fealty by defending his pony-bride\u2019s honor, reaching out to the DeviantArt user \u201cKevinsano\u201d and demanding he stop drawing her in degrading sexual situations.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>\u2192 A.V. Club, Sean O&#8217;Neal: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.avclub.com\/articles\/the-internet-finally-reaches-its-apex-as-man-marry,94206\/\">The Internet finally reaches its apex as man marrying My Little Pony character writes angry email to erotic pony artist<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Enforcing social conformity though outright mockery is kinda a time honored tradition on the internet but I definitely agree that in many cases it&#8217;s not really intended to engage the target constructively in an attempt to help them but rather ostracize them to the point where they remove themselves from the community. Of course for some targets any attention even negative attention just feeds their narcissism so they just escalate and make the environment even more toxic.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>\u2192 Metafilter, vuron: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.metafilter.com\/126260\/My-Little-Pony-Wife#4886301\">My Little Pony Wife<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>So, the \u2018future\u2019 \u2013 as we have previously imagined it \u2013 does not exist as a \u2018thing\u2019 but can be a \u2018tool\u2019 for dealing with the unknown. In other words a \u2018flying car\u2019 is not a product with a sell-by date, but a conversation that we need to hold \u2013 and continue to need to have \u2013 about our transport systems. In other words, it is entirely appropriate that we may not yet have flying cars or ray guns because we\u2019ve had conversations about transport and how to deal with emerging technologies for over a century, which have contributed to their considered evolution.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>\u2192 WarrenEllis.com, Rachel Armstrong: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.warrenellis.com\/?p=14699\" title=\"Rachel Armstron: Where did the future go?\">Where did the future go?<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/monocultured.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/pollenspark.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"340\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-5508\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>YOU have complex feelings and ambivalence about a lot of things, even if it seems like those things are good for you or for the best. Don\u2019t assume our kids don\u2019t have those feelings, or that moving into our home is happily-ever-after for them. Don\u2019t tell them how lucky they are or how they should &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/monocultured.com\/blog\/human-relations-parenting-future\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Human relations, parenting, future!<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4,279],"tags":[1811,1812,1809,705,1350,1810,1352,1210],"class_list":["post-5475","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-found","category-photography","tag-bronie","tag-deviant","tag-foster","tag-future","tag-kids","tag-mlp","tag-parents","tag-present"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/monocultured.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5475","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/monocultured.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/monocultured.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/monocultured.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/monocultured.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5475"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/monocultured.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5475\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5510,"href":"https:\/\/monocultured.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5475\/revisions\/5510"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/monocultured.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5475"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/monocultured.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5475"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/monocultured.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5475"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}